Female Masturbation

Although the clitoris is the nerve center for the orgasmic response, vaginal intercourse, obviously, can be very pleasurable and can result many orgasms. Is an orgasm from vaginal intercourse is totally different from a clitoral orgasm you might ask. In fact, vaginal intercourse is another way to stimulate the clitoris, with the added pleasure of vaginal stimulation. There are basically three reasons why intercourse is physically pleasurable.  The penis stimulates the nerve endings inside the vagina causing the vagina to be very pleasurable. The movement of the penis going in and out of the vagina pulls on the hood connected to the clitoris, providing stimulation to the clitoris. Most women would agree when they are excited and ready for sex (a wet vagina), the sensation of the vagina being filled up with a penis is just wonderful.  Note this sensation can be even more pleasurable after an orgasm! At some point, attention and stimulation should be given to the clitoris. This can be achieved through either manual or oral stimulation. How can you successfully masturbate a woman? (For the curious eyes of the men) clitoral stimulation, remember these two words they will save you later on guys. Talk with your girlfriend what she likes (technique, speed, etc. As she gets more excited, you may want to increase the pressure and speed. Of course, always listen to what she wants, as everyone is different. Don't neglect her breasts and nipples. Massage her breasts and stimulate her nipples with your free hand or mouth as much as you can. Kiss her deeply and passionately. Be sincere, a woman can always tell if you are faking the interest. When she begins to orgasm, don't stop what you are doing until she grabs your hand and pushes it away. At that point, take her in your arms and hold her closely. If you love her, tell her. Masturbation, it’s pleasurable and it helps you relax - safer than tranquillisers, cheaper than alcohol and has no side effects. If you are suffering from insomnia, this just may do the trick.  It can make you feel 'energized' and focused, making studying or concentration related tasks much easier. Provides a degree of relief from the physical discomforts a woman may feel during periods. Helps you to explore your sexuality and figure out what you like so that you can share your needs with a partner and have better sex. Always ready and available when sexual tension needs releasing; some partners can be a flop, never in the mood or some next bull SH”! Excuse. Take some of that pressure off your partner if they have been working hard, if not keep the pressure on. The one form of sex with no risk of disease, pregnancy or emotional upset; resulting in more powerful and longer orgasms than other forms of sex. Allows you to fantasise and act as you want - please yourself not your partner, thought you really should do this more in front of your partner, a good learning experience for the both of you`s, and why not tell them about your fantasises. If you're one of the many women who feel uncomfortable about taking your clothes off and seeing yourself naked there are a few simple steps you can take in the comfort of your own bedroom to help overcome this. Now is a good time to go and stand in front of that mirror. Slowly undress and watch each part of your own body as it's. Once you’re completely undressed you will find that you will become more comfortable with not only the look of your own body but the feel of it. Once you're naked, pull up a chair and sit on the edge with your legs open and take a good look at your genitals in the mirror. See all those folds and curls, Insert your finger into your vagina and see how it feels. This is your time and no one else, so there is no pressure and no reason to wonder if what you are doing is right. If it feels good to you then you're doing it right. Place your thumb and forefinger on either side of your clitoris and gently roll it between your fingers. Start slowly and gently and explore until you find the speed that works for you. A variation of this technique is to use both hands and roll your outer lips between the fingers. If your clitoris is sensitive to the touch this can be a great technique to try. With two fingers placed directly on your clitoris move them in a circular motion. As always try varying the speed and position of your fingers. Draw circles do some creative art works around your clitoris with your middle finger.

You may like to try placing a finger inside yourself and thrusting it back and forth, (please do so and enjoy it) Then take your fingers and tap them gently against your clitoris. Vary the speed and intensity of each tap, if you're playing music listen to its beat and try to develop a rhythm. Try changing positions he sensations will change as you change positions. Try sitting, standing, squatting or laying on your belly as well as your back. The key here is to have fun and become comfortable with your own body and the feelings you create as you explore. This is a way of communicate with yourself, getting in touch with your sexual side without fear.

The journey of sexual discovery.