14 holiday delightz!

I like 14 so lets make it 14 days of anticipation fun before the Christmas slips us by. 
Day 14: walk around the house, or your personal quarter topless going little cleaning chores; if your man’s body does not look like the actor Brad Pitt or the fashion model Joshua Hyman,  well the fitness gyms are always having super deals this time year ^_^
Day 13: sext your lover,
send your lover a sext every hour- keep it naughty and nice.
Day 12: KISS like there was nothing you would like to do than be right there with your love kissing them, pretending it’s the first time kissing your love and do this for each hour of the day. 
Day 11: create a few what i want to do with you cards, an place them in spots you know he/she is guaranteed to look throughout the day
Day 10: Go somewhere just to make love, cheap hotel or expensive, deserted area, ect.
Day  9: Engage in a loving embrace for 9 mins
Day  8: grab your love's ass, when they walk by
Day  7: sneak up on your love and attack them sexually
Day  6: foreplay fun day, "play play, play", take your sweet time with the foreplay
Day  5: sit down for 5min and enjoy each others beauties and what you love about each other
Day  4: venture into new techniques, read a book or watch TV then practice all night till perfected.
Day  3: have a bubble bath and wash each other with fun and love
Day 2: give your lover a to do list, one that won’t require a tool box, but may require certain muscles. A list of needs you have ranging from a sensual massage to multiple orgasms
Day Christmas: eat or go blow your lover’s Christmas delight; get your Christmas morning off to a volcanic start leaving your lover glowing red all day long.

Holiday fun: Naughty!!

most advisors, and expert would say, women like to be on top, due the feeling of being in charge, this Holiday season,  make your woman feel an know she is in charge by being submissive to her, being on top is just an illusion of being in charge.( don't listen to the experts, this time your the sexpert and your lover wants in) . Whoever is more sexually charged with emotional content is the one that is in charge. But lets face it, who really cares about who is in charge, we all just want to make sure our lover is satisfied at the end of the night, so let get about chatting on some positions to some charge into action.

if your looking to get you to the O- glorious hot stop, you may want to have your self positioned in a way, so your on your side, one leg straight, the other leg is held high by your partner, pending how flexible you can have a lot of play. With the  leg that is in the air, your partner can rub you high or very low to a slow tease, and move it to different positions, exposing your vagina to new squeezes from the locations of the leg. Your partner will be on his knees and an deeply tucked into you, looking towards you. With his free hand he can make sure you get the full experience of stimulation of your clitoris and penetration.  The main focus of this experiment is to play around with the free leg, and watch the reaction of your partner, once you get the magic spot hold the leg, don’t let go, enjoy.

If you with a partner, and they want sex but just don’t have that energy to do some high end creative goodness, you always have the comfort zone, code name the "mission position".  The variations of pleasure are endless, and you don’t have a gold medal in gymnastics to enjoy.  Embrace your lover, and use different parts of your body for thrust power. Use your lower back to creation motion; this move will give a direct deep penetration. Moving your hips side to side, will stimulate your clitoris but will not have much thrust power. (Female) move to his rhythm while he is on top, arch your back slight so the middle of your back is elevated, pushing out our breast and pelvis to enjoy a deeper feeling. Move your legs to new positions, find the spot you like, and have your partner hold a leg or two.!!

Try the kitchen counter, the bathroom counter, the washing machine, the piano, the hood of your car -- get as naughty as you like.

play with her breasts and clitoris, usually most women can never get enough of- if your partner is not doing enough of the play by play action; you need to set him straight, an if he is I’ll leave that up to you how you will rewards his efforts.

Women definitely enjoy doggy style, as long as they aren’t made to feel like objects.
As mentioned previously, women love sex just as much as you do, and they’re particularly fond of it when it involves any of these woman-pleasing sexual positions. Women love those kinky positions, too, but sometimes a girl just wants a man to penetrate her in a style she knows she’ll be able to orgasm from. Take into consideration the emotions an feeling of your partner, at the end of the night they are trying to please you, enjoy the sensations, an always be sure to tell each other your appreciation, it makes a big different having telling your partner, rather having them guess.

You and your partner should be silly in bed together, name your moves.

Chicken soup for the sack

Hard cock café

O juice mix

Hard nipple candy

Hot G cakes

For couples who that place intimacy and close contact a priority, when they make love and explore their sexuality, side-by-side sex positions give maximum opportunity for cuddling, caressing and kissing.

Man-on-top positions aren't always passive for the woman. With many variations on the 'missionary' position mentioned above, the woman can control the depth of penetration and set the pace for intercourse. This can be a great boost to a woman's sense of her own sexuality

Rear-exit positions usually often more intense feeling,allowing the female or male to play with the clitoris, breast, and buttock. With imagination, the loving couple can find others that are even more stimulating,over the almost certainly known 'doggy' position.

Woman on top, a great way of enhancing the woman's experience of her own sexuality. The man lies on his back while the woman rides him. She can then set the speed and depth of penetration. Pin his arms to the bed for extra power!!!

Holiday Fun

December..December,. the month to remember, get on your knees and look up at your partner and say pretty please, don’t try to stop cause I’m going to make you drop. Verbal foreplay is oral foreplay just your mouth is not on your lover’s body. I’m sure we all watched a movie and the line came across proper, and the sex scene was just magical. Now you say the line, but you forgot one thing- you’re not Denzel, or Halle Barry and your left in this awkward moment. Don’t worry about it, cause now it will be quiet and you most likely got your partner full attention to reverse the moment into a memorable event.

Be Proper ( Sincere)

-          It may not come as smooth as your rehearsed script, but it will definitely have the emotional content attached to each word and your lover will feel your intentions.

Tell them what your not going to do

-          You’re probably always telling him/her what you are going to do, to get them excited. Instead tell them going to do this in a serious mood but not to kill the venue, still have some touching/talking going on , then spring the trap and catch them, and watch your lover smile

Keep intimacy seductively sexy (Kiss)

Simple lines that get your point across and said within the perfect moment orgasmic results.

-          Their name ( your thinking of only them, makes them feel even more appricated)

-          Their body ( mention the little detail { finger/ toes, arms. Etc.} how you enjoy them

-          This is the last person i want to experience this kind a of pleasure with

-          Be yourself if you’re a silly person be silly an play full, if your serious be serious, but make sure it sincere, and reassuring.

-          *If you ask for it you just might get it*

Dangerous when WET

The rumors that female ejaculation is the result of poor bladder control or pools in the back of the vagina to squirt out during the strong muscle contractions of orgasm, have been proven wrong. Some women hitting the g spot can bring deep and intense orgasms, which may bring stimulating sensations that them feel like they have to pee.  As she approaches the point of orgasm, she may get a 'full-bladder" feeling, because of the prolonged intensity of the orgasm.  Although many women feel a slight need to urinate right before ejaculation, however the fluid is definitely not urine. The misleading sensation to pee- is a clear, whitish fluid from her G-Spot ejaculation. It has been researched the possibility that all women produce female ejaculate, even if they are not aware of it - in which many cases  alot of woman are not aware, and will mistake the feeling of wanting to pee.

The female ejaculate is very much like prostrate fluid of the male (just with no sperm. And if there is sperm, well your in a world of hurt!!!) It is usually clear, or milky and as thin as water. It does not have the look, smell or taste of urine almost odorless.  The ejaculate is from the urethra ( the final passage way for urine out the female body) but  most definitely not urine. It’s basically impossible to pee during a orgasm unless there is a weak pubococcygeus muscle (weak bladder or bladder problems). The fluid from the paraurethral glands is released or during orgasm as a result of pelvic muscle contractions. In some cases, all of the fluid released from a woman's urethra is ejaculate, but may be a sexy mixture of ejaculate and urine as well, and only exit the body through the urethra.

During sexual arousal the paraurethral glands", fill with fluid which may be felt through the vaginal wall. The amount of fluid can vary from a couple drops to almost two cups of sex juice. The female G-Spot does not need to be stimulated for ejaculation to occur but I would simulate her G spot anywho. And the response can be  from a leaking tap to a spilling a cup of milk!

• ·        " (paraurethral glands, U-spot, Skene’e Glands or female prostate) are glands located on the anterior wall of the vagina, around the lower end of the urethra. They drain into the urethra and near the urethral opening. These glands are surrounded with tissue, which includes the part of the clitoris that reaches up inside the vagina and swells with bloodduring sexual arousal"

The clitoris is your best bet that holds the key to female ejaculation for most women. If the clitoris is not stimulated a woman is less likely to become highly aroused. If she is not highly aroused, her skene’s glands will not fill with fluid. It has been estimated approximately 40% of women are capable of female ejaculation or squirting.  Enjoy and get to know your body ( females) the more you understand of yourself the better you can teach your boy toys how to play with you.

Toucholigy

Most of us know which female body parts men like to make the frequent hott stops, surpriznig  there is allot more a to woman to her than;" a vagina, breasts and buttocks," Pleasures happen all over her body, and using her body to get her in the mood may be as easy as fascinating these poor neglected women pleasure stops. Long hair, short hair, doesn’t matter what kind of hair, just be sure to make a hot stop there. Let your fingers play in her hair, gently massaging her neck and head. Free your fingers. creative massage circles ranging from her temples of her head down to the nape of her neck.  The Nape of her neck is located on the back of the neck, just where the two should blades meet. Be silly add some soft nibbles, and kisses,  use power of gentle touches and kisses from her hairline to her shoulders, to educe your partner. The collarbone, it looks sexy, and it is sexy; key word sex. We are in this for sex, so let us make it apart of the intimate encounters. Add some anticipation, unbutton, or slide her shirt down just enough to reveal the clavicle and show your appreciation with kissing, and fun of the tongue. Once the clothes find rest on the ground, be sure to make a few more hot spots back here, the clavicle. Behind her knee is a very sensitive hot spot, and a good way of stimulating a woman, moving right up to the Inner thighs. Without venturing to the hot "spot G" area, the inner thigh is an excellent tease to get her hot. Use your hands but the mouth is the better tool for this job to caress and kiss inner thighs, go sensational close to her volcanic pleasure stop, but you have to resist the urge to slip down to her vagina when you’re super close. Like teasing her inner thighs, kissing and licking around her pelvis will excite and prolong the delights, keep exploring body; Dora the explore does a great job , never in the same spot. Blend the touching of these forbidden hot stops into your foreplay and sex, or treatment of after hour pleasures from a long hard day, will definitely earn you some thongs off, on the floor points.

BITE of LOVE

There nothing like a kiss of passions between 2 lovers; add some bite with soft educing nibbles on the tongue, and lips, now you have a weapon of mass seduction. The good lovers know their lovemanship, when to pull in an pull out; here are some hints to have your lover aching for your touch tonight. A great kiss is a work of art, an all art tell stories. Keeping your lover warm in your grasp, whisper to her/him about a body part you usually don’t notice, a good lover will touch on all the body. Keep your face softly pressed against the side lover as you whisper, while licking and nibbling on their ear (but don’t allow him/her to see your face while you’re whispering).  Be creative and silly, its is just you and your lover. Do this until they can’t take it and take hold you of an push their lips on to yours. Now you slowly pull back and start kissing and licking their skin, glancing up to see their reaction. Grab some skin with your mouth carefully; find the delicate balance of kissing while biting. Play with your kisses, some hard an short, long and soft, before biting. The nipples for sure being the top stop for seductive sensational nibbling, be playful and mix in allot of wet kissing, licking, move your mouth around while sensual biting, feel your lovers reaction to your different techniques to know what they like, biting is incredibly arousing both men and women. All long the neck, the back being the most desirable, for there is allot of nerves along the back of your neck a very sensual spot for both sexes. The entire body is in heat during sex, not just the obvious hot spots; during the peak of a heated moment being bitten on your shoulder has proven to be very erotic. When the heat is on, try this technique from behind for a volcanic sexy sensation. The Insides of a women elbow and wrist, and the back of the knees, are great placed to nibble, they are very sensitive and sexy spots; she will love you for that. The hips are a very erogenous zone (is an area of the human body that has heightened sensitivity, the stimulation of which may result in the production of erotic sensations or sexual excitement) perfect of kissing, and biting. Licking and biting from her hip bone and down toward crease of the inner leg (following the "V" line of her lower abs to the genitals zone) is where most concentration of efforts should be placed. Be very delicate and soft biting the vagina, being hurt during sex is a stop box, don’t stay in one place, you want to have them guessing where you lips will land, and will keep the body on edge. Keep your attention to the erogenous hot stops, biting is not the main event, just the detours to get you to that runway of intimacy with your partner.

Perfect Sex

What is perfect sex; , how long should sex last for the perfect sex that satisfies both partners. It turned out sex should last about 10 minutes. Averaging from surveys both sexes agreed on the fact that sex lasts for 2 minutes does not bring satisfaction - "too fast". From 7 to 13 minutes - this is desirable. But if direct sex lasts longer, then sexual desire fades and turns into sex work - "too long”. On the other hand, enjoying sex in long durations is not only fun but also benefits. It turns out that sex helps to neutralize free radicals and promotes metabolism. (The free-radical theory of aging (FRTA) states that organisms age because cells accumulate free radical damage over time)

Perfect sex from a non - medical point of view; in simple terms, taking the time to perfectly understand your partner. sex is not just the time of penetration, sex begins with those naughty thoughts ya all slipping to each other, the kissing and touching an grabbing and that good stuff..

There is no perfect sex if you ask me, you can’t measure perfect by a set time( and if you can then your in a world of hurt), perfect sex is, any allotted time spent with your partner, and the appreciation, joys, love for each other is well expressed.

A good read

Sex Perfect: The Art of Sexual Intercourse (Paperback)

Author: David Delvin

Sex in clothes

Is this the new style of a quick fix? Apparently in Europe (British) women prefer sex, fully clothed, with access only to appropriate parts of the body, the button shirts, blouse and skirt probably work best.
Reason; very concerned for their appearance, weight, shape of the breast, an appearance of their vagina. Fact is men love breast from size A to Z, if they were all the same shape and size, they would not excite men. The vagina is a best kept secret,better than Victoria's Secret in which men are dying to see. Parting with clothes leaves some women mentally unsure of themselves, and this prohibits her to experience genuine orgasmic pleasures. In addition, more than 60% of women do not have sex in the light. Men don’t play off a woman's insecurity, comfort her in the ways a woman needs, the fact that they are allowing you to experience an intimate duration, the man should be express his appreciation an make sure the woman can see and feel it. A confident and satisfied woman involves some work and it more than just penetration guys.
Women do not to be ashamed of your beautiful "body gifted from above!"

Taste the Waist

Seems like its not just the size of breast that the men glorify in women. Surprisingly, the most  top attractive part is the waist. You still have the occasionally men preferring the chest, thighs but basically it comes down to the slimmer she is - the better. Driven by media the main selling point of a woman is her chest, the reason being so many women wear low cut shirts, or the infamous V neck, taking the focus of the eye and drawing it to a focal point which is right center of the cleavage. Usually why you always catch that guy looking at your cleavage, (but hey, your advertising works ^_^ ) A flat stomach and waist suggest to men elevated levels of estrogens in the body, which also means "increased" female libido.

2 quick for comfort

A woman asked
"a guy invited me on a date to have dinner near where he lives and then to have drinks at his house. I've met him now about 4-5 times, but this last request seems too quick and obvious for my tastes. 

I dont know if I should cancel or not."

RESPONSE:

you have  been on a few dates with this young man, and by now should have a rough feel as to what direction he is taking. Your still in the young stages, if you feel, you know where the date will lead to; chances are your heart is probably correct. If you have a feeling listen, to your feeling, that is your heart telling you the truth. Now is the best time to test him to see if he is really into you or just wants a bend over girl. Take him up on the offer for dinner; while at the dinner, tell him you enjoy the time together, but don't feel comfortable joining him for drinks at his house at this stage. Feel the night (date) out and things the chemistry may change.

Sexoliogy;
sexoliogy is a word I came up with  to meet the needs of the everyday person, a janitor is now sanitation engineering, and will soon require a university degree, as with the new studies of sex, in which you will also require a degree ( sexoliogy), with a fee of, read and understand, ask questions, get answers. ^_^

Interacting with a lot of women you get to comprehend that sex is the dessert of a three course meal, and if you know the right wine with your meats, your meal is that much better. With the help of viewers, and me" being me we will have open ended bloggets on sexoliogy, eat and have fun, lets go for a run.
^_^