"a guy invited me on a date to have dinner near where he lives and then to have drinks at his house. I've met him now about 4-5 times, but this last request seems too quick and obvious for my tastes.
I dont know if I should cancel or not."
RESPONSE:
you have been on a few dates with this young man, and by now should have a rough feel as to what direction he is taking. Your still in the young stages, if you feel, you know where the date will lead to; chances are your heart is probably correct. If you have a feeling listen, to your feeling, that is your heart telling you the truth. Now is the best time to test him to see if he is really into you or just wants a bend over girl. Take him up on the offer for dinner; while at the dinner, tell him you enjoy the time together, but don't feel comfortable joining him for drinks at his house at this stage. Feel the night (date) out and things the chemistry may change.
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